I have recently been nominated for two different awards, so I decided to do them as a mash up in the same post and answer all the questions that my nominees asked. I will be sharing the rules for each award, nominating and asking questions separately for each award. This way I figure can nominate more bloggers and will try to ask questions relating more specifically to the kind of award, or at least that’s the idea. If that makes sense? I was kinda confused in how I want to mash these two awards up so please bare with me.
Also if you notice rules changed or are different for the same awards etc, don’t worry you are not the only one confused or alone. I had different rules for The Liebster Award from both my nominations and I had to change the wording so it makes sense and am just doing all the rules from both.
Alright, let’s get to it!
I have been nominated for the Liebster Award by both Krissy (Strawberry Kettle) and Jeanette (My Life With PTSD & Bipolar). The Liebster Award is often given to ideally new bloggers and as I just opened this blog a couple weeks ago or less, this is a huge inspiration and means a lot to me! Thank you to both these lovely bloggers.
I use to blog over at ‘Rude Girl ~ Living in an Aspie World,’ but for personal reasons I opened this new found blog here. Woot! My blog is mainly about my life experiences with mental health illnesses, autism and other associated disorders. I hope to inspire or help other bloggers by opening up about my own life experiences and because there is such a stigma attached to these disorders or mental health illnesses I hope to contribute to ending those stigmas. I also hope to meet and be inspired by fellow bloggers. With brief spamming of music and random talks about how awesome my best friend/husband/love of my life is and whatever else pops into my head. That’s the story/reason for my blog basically.
Krissy blogs over at Strawberry Kettle please go over and say hello as she is one of my personal favorite new bloggers that I recently discovered.
Jeanette blogs over at My Life With PTSD & Bipolar and you should take time to check her blog out. As a person who struggles with mental health issues I find her blog really inspiring and helpful.
Rules For The Liebster Award
Write about your blog and thank the person who nominated you. Share a link to their blog and write a little something about their blog too.
Display the award on your blog
Nominate 5 – 11 blogs that you feel would enjoy blogging about this award.
Answer the questions provided.
Make a new set of 10 questions for your nominees to answer.
List these rules in your post
Inform the people/blogs that you nominated.
Jeanette asked the same questions for both the Sunshine Blogger Award and the Liebster Award, so I will answer hers later when I do the Sunshine Blogger Award to spread it out.
My answers to Krissy’s questions
What fictional place would you most like to go to?
The imaginary world in my head tbh which is way to amazing and difficult to describe. xD
What would be the most amazing adventure to go on?
I have already had a few pretty amazing adventures I must say, Alaska, drives through Canada, meeting my husband and that whole experience etc.
Future adventures though? That’s a tough one. I imagine here are many amazing adventures and places I want to visit. Also I may not know how amazing it will be until I go on said adventure. Some places I think would make amazing adventures would be Ireland (I always wanted to go there like since a child and so does my husband) Seeing the Grand Canyon and doing Las Vegas etc that whole thing in one trip would be ideal. I have been told the Grand Canyon is something really amazing and mind blowing. Greece is another one I really want to experience! Road trips in general are always great adventures or backpacking/camping. There are a lot more amazing adventures I am sure I will experience and want to.
What takes up too much of your time?
Writing, and music, but not in a bad way. 😛 Chores.
What are some small things that make your day better?
Hugs, kisses or other loves from the hubby. Music. Going for walks. Tea. Etc.
What age do you wish you could permanently be? And why?
I don’t know if I have been an age yet that I would want to be permanently. Maybe the age I am now…29-30? Just because getting old sucks and the last year has not been so cruel to me.
What’s the best single day on the calendar? ( Jan 1st to Dec 31st)
I don’t have a best or favorite particular day. Depends on the year and I don’t really keep track.
What is the most heartwarming thing you’ve ever seen?
I honestly don’t know right now.
What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives?
Where is the most interesting place you have been?
Alaska, Rockies (Canada) the remote island I grew up on in my teens – young adulthood.
What’s the best way to start the day?
Waking up slowly cuddling with the husband, coffee is already made from the night before and all you have to do is press the button. Turn coffee on, go out have the first smoke of the morning and go back to relaxing/drinking coffee. I am not a morning person and I always take my dear sweet time to get moving.
My set of 10 questions for The Liebster Award nominees:
What inspired you or why did you start blogging? (This could also be related to writing. You choose)
What is the reason behind your blog name and/or url?
In your personal opinion, what is your favorite blog or best blog you have posted so far and why?
What are some of your favorite tips for new bloggers?
How has blogging changed your life?
Do you like music? If so, what are some of your favorite artists or songs etc?
Do you read? If so, what are some of your favorite books or authors?
What are some of your hobbies?
What places do you really want to see, experience or visit?
If there was one thing (anything) in humanity or the world you could change without question ifs or buts, what would it be?
My nominees for the Liebster Award in no particular order:
Tales From My Uterus
Mentally Not Reyt
McGee Travel Tales
Mental Health @ Home
Meanwhile, in the real world…
The Godless Iowan
As always I also nominate anyone who wants to take part in this award as there are a lot of great new blogs to discover and I don’t want anyone to feel left out. 😛 You can use me as your nominee, use the same questions I asked etc.
Jeanette (My Life With PTSD & Bipolar) also nominated me for The Sunshine Blogger award. The Sunshine Blogger is given to bloggers or blogs that are inspiring, creative or positive. It means so much that someone would see my blog as such. Thank you again! It means so much to already be nominated for a couple awards. Woot!
In case you missed the link above, you can go over and check out her blog at My Life With PTSD & Bipolar
Rules for The Sunshine Blogger Award
Thank blogger(s) who nominated you for the blog post and link back to their blog.
Answer the 11 questions the blogger asked you.
Nominate 11 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.
My answers to Jeanette’s questions:
What keeps you going in life?
Music, my husband, the little things in life I enjoy like animals or the beauty, and I think the little fight or motivation I have in me even when all else is lost.
If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?
I would love to say nothing, and overall I have come to terms that what I can’t change I need to accept and what I can change I should/do change. In reality there are a few things I would like to change such as my perfectionism or my issues with executive function to name a couple. Though I constantly work on areas in my life or my personality where I struggle, sometimes it will always be an uphill battle.
What about blogging helps your mental health?
Since writing is my passion and I am a lot better writer than I am a talker. I would say being able to express my feelings through words in writing in general helps. Blogging is kind of self therapeutic on it’s own because it goes hand in hand as part of my writing habits now. When I meet other bloggers who say they relate to my experiences or I read their posts it makes me not feel so alone. Those would be a few reasons I can think of right now. What a great question!
Why do you blog?
I think for the most part I have already explained it as part of these two awards and I am sure many of my followers already know, but in case not I will hopefully explain again briefly. I blog to share my passion of writing in hopes to help myself and others dealing with similar life experiences. It inspires me to share my writing pieces and experiences as the feedback is always motivating and feels like I have a purpose I guess? I also hope to in some small way be a part of ending the stigmas attached to autism, it’s associated disorders and mental health issues. I also blog to meet, be inspired and not feel so alone who are going through similar things as me.
Who inspires you? Why?
My Oma, because of her amazing spirit, what she has overcome in life, her adventurous personality and she really does live life to the fullest. At 90 she is still traveling to Austria from Canada, still goes on walks and other adventures etc. She has and is still a very healthy person and she inspires that through her actions. (I wish I took note more often.)
My husband because before he came into my life I never really had anyone who challenged me (in a good way) yet still understands me and is very supportive. We try to bring out the best in each other etc.
How far have you come in “recovery”?
In some ways I would like to say I have come very far. Through finding out about my diagnoses etc really helped towards my recovery with things like depression and learning to accept myself. Everyday is still a battle, but I have come a long way.
What’s your favorite book?
I have a few. A lot of the classics of course (The Outsiders, Catcher In The Rye, To Kill A Mockingbird etc) Eminem’s hard copy biography book he wrote (his music has always meant a lot to me and his book was equally as helpful/inspiring) Nick And Norah’s Infinite Playlist (probably because of my obsession with music) Where The Wild Things Are (one of my favorite children books) and a few more!
Do you meditate? Does it help your mental health?
No I do not, unfortunately. Although I am sure there are moments where I do meditate and actually don’t recognize that is what it is or I am just actually spacing out. Either way. xD I should really start to try meditating more though.
What age were you diagnosed?
My self discovery with autism, anxiety etc began in my mid twenties. I am still self diagnosed (surprising I know. A post to come about that soon and the guilt I feel about not being open enough about that tbh) I have never been diagnosed officially with depression and a few other mental health issues, I just am a believer I don’t need a diagnoses to know how I feel or am.
What’s your biggest triggers right now?
I honestly am not entirely sure. Thoughts of my past and things like that are still I find that triggers a lot of things. Crowded places, or very loud places etc triggers my anxiety or is one of the main triggers. Being over worked or off my routine. There are quite a few things that trigger each of my diagnoses or mental health problems.
My set of 11 questions for The Sunshine Blogger Award nominees:
What are some things that make you smile?
In your opinion, what do you think was/is your most creative post on your blog?
What/who inspires you? Why?
Are you more of a day person or night owl?
What are some of your go to self therapies? (This can relate to anything, doesn’t have to be related to just mental health. Just what helps you relax in life/your day)
What are some of your short term and long term goals? (It can be anything and does not need to be specifically tied to career goals or academic etc)
What makes you unique?
How do you come out of writer’s block?
What does a perfect day look like to you?
If you could only keep 5 possessions, what would they be and why?
What are your fears?
My nominees for The Sunshine Blogger Award in no particular order:
J.E Skye (The Bipolar Writer)
Discovering Your Happiness
Renew or redo
Braving Mental Illness
Aspergers From The Inside
The Art Of Autism
Much like above, for my 11th nominee I nominate any blogger who hasn’t done this award tag and wants to take part as there are many creative and positive blogs to still be discovered and I couldn’t possibly nominate all of them! 🙂
Thank you again to the wonderful females who nominated me and congratulations to the nominees! I look forward to reading your answers and participation if you choose to accept the nomination. No pressure though! If you have been nominated before, have an award free blog or whatever the reason you don’t want to take part don;t feel pressured. I won’t take it personally promise. 😃